Patchogue Divorce Mediation
Suffolk County Divorce Mediation, serving families in Patchogue and beyond, provides comprehensive mediation services aimed at facilitating a smoother divorce process.
Less Money. Less Time. Less Stress.
If you and your spouse are willing to work amicably, mediation resolves everything a litigated divorce does — at a fraction of the cost.
The Cost of Mediation vs. Litigation
No hidden fees, no open-ended hourly billing. Here is how the numbers compare for a typical Long Island divorce.
*Most mediations are completed within the retainer. Occasionally a mediation runs a few hours beyond it when substantial assets — pensions, 401(k)s, IRAs — are involved. With children under 21, the retainer starts at $4,500.
*Combined hourly total for each spouse’s divorce attorney. **Based on the average cost of divorce attorneys in New York State plus required court fees.
How Divorce Mediation Works
Six steps, from your first conversation to a finalized Judgment of Divorce — without a single court appearance.
Free Consultation
Both spouses meet with us together — mediation is unbiased, so we never discuss your divorce with only one party present. We answer your questions and quote a flat retainer.
Schedule Your Sessions
You set the pace — as quick or as measured as you both want. Six Long Island offices and evening appointments make sessions easy to fit around work and family.
Mediate Every Issue
A neutral attorney-mediator explains New York law on each issue — custody, support, the home, retirement — and facilitates the conversation until you reach agreement.
Agreement Drafted
We draft your Stipulation of Settlement — the binding agreement that captures everything you’ve decided, in the form the court requires.
We File All Court Paperwork
Every ancillary document — including the Findings of Fact and the Judgment of Divorce — is prepared and submitted to the court by our attorney-mediators.
Judgment of Divorce
Your divorce is finalized without you ever setting foot in a courtroom — and without the strict deadlines a judge would impose.
Why Hire Our Patchogue Divorce Mediators?

“She advocates for you and helps you see past the emotion. She’s the one you want on your side.”
Google review — client of Riley Perry
Our Mediators Are Experienced Divorce Attorneys
Mediation doesn’t legally require an attorney — but it should. Many advertised mediators are therapists or coaches with no working knowledge of New York divorce law, and some will leave you with a negotiated agreement but no final judgment.
Our mediators are practicing divorce attorneys who understand every phase of litigation. They know what the court requires, and they carry your case all the way through to the Judgment of Divorce. Having represented wives, husbands, mothers, and fathers, they understand the concerns on both sides of the table.
A Highly Rated Divorce Mediation Service

About Our Patchogue Divorce Mediation Service
Suffolk County Divorce Mediation, serving families in Patchogue and beyond, provides comprehensive mediation services aimed at facilitating a smoother divorce process. Founded in 2017, Suffolk Divorce Mediation is dedicated to helping couples navigate the complexities of divorce in a way that minimizes conflict and promotes cooperation. With six convenient office locations and evening appointment availability, Suffolk Divorce Mediation is committed to accommodating the busy lives of divorcing couples.
The team at Suffolk Divorce Mediation understands that each family is unique, and their mediators work to develop customized solutions that reflect the needs and goals of both parties. Offering reasonable fees and a free initial consultation, Suffolk Divorce Mediation makes it easier for Patchogue residents to explore their options without financial pressure. By choosing a local, experienced mediation service like Suffolk County Divorce Mediation, couples can take advantage of a supportive and efficient process.

Is Mediation Right For You?
Divorce is never easy, but the way you approach it can make a significant difference in the process. Patchogue divorce mediation offers a more peaceful, affordable, and efficient way for couples to resolve their disputes and come to mutually agreeable solutions. If you’re looking for a method that keeps control in your hands while also preserving dignity and respect, mediation could be the right option for you.
Rather than entering a courtroom and facing lengthy litigation, mediation allows you and your spouse to work together in a neutral, confidential setting. You can openly discuss your concerns and negotiate key issues such as child custody, asset division, and spousal support with the guidance of a trained mediator. This alternative to traditional divorce proceedings ensures that both parties can have a say in the final outcome, creating resolutions that benefit everyone involved.
Patchogue divorce mediation offers an effective, affordable, and respectful approach to divorce, helping families navigate this difficult time with greater ease and less conflict. Whether you’re seeking a faster resolution, a more cost-effective option, or a less stressful process, mediation could be the solution you need.

Benefits That Divorce Mediation Offers
Divorce mediation offers numerous benefits for couples in Patchogue:
- Control Over the Process: Unlike a judge who makes final decisions in court, mediation allows both parties to have a say in the outcome. This makes the final settlement more likely to be satisfactory for everyone involved.
- Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are private and confidential, meaning the details of your divorce won’t be made public, unlike in a courtroom setting.
- Preserving Relationships: Since mediation focuses on communication and compromise, it can help preserve amicable relationships between spouses. This is especially important for co-parenting after the divorce.
- Customizable Solutions: The mediation process is flexible, allowing for creative and personalized solutions to issues like property division and child custody that fit your family’s needs.
- Less Adversarial: Mediation is designed to reduce hostility, making it a more peaceful alternative to traditional divorce litigation.
Six Convenient Locations
From the South Shore to the East End — with affiliated offices in Nassau County — there’s a mediation office near you.
Babylon
57 W Main St, Suite 220
Babylon, NY 11702
Hauppauge
1300 E Veterans Memorial Hwy, Ste 320C
Hauppauge, NY 11788
Huntington
100 E Carver St, Suite 3
Huntington, NY 11743
Patchogue
76 Medford Ave
Patchogue, NY 11772
East Hampton
9 Willow Ln
East Hampton, NY 11937
Mineola · Nassau
1539 Franklin Ave
Mineola, NY 11501
Proudly serving couples throughout Long Island — including Smithtown, Garden City, Islip, Brookhaven, Bay Shore, Commack, Ronkonkoma, Mineola, Riverhead, and the surrounding Long Island communities.
Frequently Asked Questions About Divorce Mediation
What is the role of a mediator?
A mediator is a neutral third party who facilitates discussion between the divorcing spouses. The mediator does not make decisions but helps the couple communicate effectively and work towards a mutually agreeable resolution.
How long does divorce mediation take?
The length of mediation depends on the complexity of the issues involved and the willingness of both parties to compromise. On average, mediation can be completed in a few sessions, but some cases may take longer.
Do we still need a lawyer if we choose mediation?
While mediation is a less formal process, it’s often a good idea for each spouse to consult with an attorney to review any agreements before they are finalized. However, mediation can significantly reduce the amount of time and legal fees involved compared to traditional litigation.
Can we mediate if we don’t get along?
Yes, mediation is designed to help couples who may not agree on everything. The mediator will guide the conversation and help find common ground, even if there are disagreements.
Is divorce mediation legally binding?
Once both parties agree on a settlement, the agreement can be submitted to the court to be incorporated into the final divorce decree, making it legally binding.
Request Your Free Initial Consultation
Fill out the form, or call us now. Both spouses attend the consultation together — it’s free, and there’s no obligation to continue.