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Patchogue Divorce Mediation

A Cost-Effective and Less Stressful Path to Separation

Suffolk County Divorce Mediation, serving families in Patchogue and beyond, provides comprehensive mediation services aimed at facilitating a smoother divorce process.

★★★★★5.0 · 32 Google reviews
Young couple at a divorce mediator's office
Why Choose Divorce Mediation in Patchogue?

Less Money. Less Time. Less Stress.

If you and your spouse are willing to work amicably, mediation resolves everything a litigated divorce does — at a fraction of the cost.

Cost-Effective

One of the biggest advantages of mediation in Patchogue is that it is significantly more cost-effective than litigation. In a contested divorce, the expenses can quickly pile up due to attorney fees, court costs, and other legal expenditures. Divorce mediation helps you save money by streamlining the process and reducing the need for prolonged court involvement. Since mediation focuses on collaboration rather than conflict, couples can work through issues faster, meaning fewer billable hours and fewer resources spent overall.

Less Time

Traditional divorce litigation can be a lengthy, drawn-out process that takes months or even years to resolve, especially if there are disputes over key matters like child custody or property division. Divorce mediation in Patchogue, on the other hand, tends to be far less time-consuming. Rather than waiting for court dates and being subject to a judge's busy schedule, you and your spouse can arrange mediation sessions at your own convenience.

Less Stress

Divorce can be emotionally draining, but the mediation process is designed to reduce the stress typically associated with the end of a marriage. Because mediation encourages open dialogue and cooperation, it fosters an environment of mutual respect and understanding. In contrast to the often adversarial nature of divorce court, mediation helps both parties feel heard and supported.

Transparent Fees

The Cost of Mediation vs. Litigation

No hidden fees, no open-ended hourly billing. Here is how the numbers compare for a typical Long Island divorce.

Mediation Approximate Price
Initial retainer $4,000*
Hourly price of mediation $400/hour
Average total cost $4,000 – $7,000

*Most mediations are completed within the retainer. Occasionally a mediation runs a few hours beyond it when substantial assets — pensions, 401(k)s, IRAs — are involved. With children under 21, the retainer starts at $4,500.

Litigation Approximate Price
Hour-based retainer $5,000 – $10,000
Hourly price of divorce attorneys $700 – $1,000/hour*
Average total cost $13,000 – $17,000**

*Combined hourly total for each spouse’s divorce attorney. **Based on the average cost of divorce attorneys in New York State plus required court fees.

Our Process

How Divorce Mediation Works

Six steps, from your first conversation to a finalized Judgment of Divorce — without a single court appearance.

Free Consultation

Both spouses meet with us together — mediation is unbiased, so we never discuss your divorce with only one party present. We answer your questions and quote a flat retainer.

Schedule Your Sessions

You set the pace — as quick or as measured as you both want. Six Long Island offices and evening appointments make sessions easy to fit around work and family.

Mediate Every Issue

A neutral attorney-mediator explains New York law on each issue — custody, support, the home, retirement — and facilitates the conversation until you reach agreement.

Agreement Drafted

We draft your Stipulation of Settlement — the binding agreement that captures everything you’ve decided, in the form the court requires.

We File All Court Paperwork

Every ancillary document — including the Findings of Fact and the Judgment of Divorce — is prepared and submitted to the court by our attorney-mediators.

Judgment of Divorce

Your divorce is finalized without you ever setting foot in a courtroom — and without the strict deadlines a judge would impose.

Why Hire Us?

Why Hire Our Patchogue Divorce Mediators?

Less costly then typical divorce
Less time than a contested divorce
We File All Court Paperwork
A proven track record of successful mediations
Less stress than a contested divorce
Transparent Fees
Skilled Divorce Attorneys
Six Convenient Locations in Suffolk County
Riley T. Perry, Esq.

“She advocates for you and helps you see past the emotion. She’s the one you want on your side.”

Google review — client of Riley Perry
Meet Your Mediators

Our Mediators Are Experienced Divorce Attorneys

Mediation doesn’t legally require an attorney — but it should. Many advertised mediators are therapists or coaches with no working knowledge of New York divorce law, and some will leave you with a negotiated agreement but no final judgment.

Our mediators are practicing divorce attorneys who understand every phase of litigation. They know what the court requires, and they carry your case all the way through to the Judgment of Divorce. Having represented wives, husbands, mothers, and fathers, they understand the concerns on both sides of the table.

Online Ratings

A Highly Rated Divorce Mediation Service

★★★★★5.0 rating · 32 Google reviews
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“Riley Perry is an honest, dedicated professional who is supportive and knowledgeable. She advocates for you and helps you see past the emotion. I felt comfortable from moment one. Highly recommend!”

Kathy D. Google
★★★★★

“I would highly recommend Long Island Divorce Mediation and Riley Perry. They provide outstanding services and are very professional and prompt.”

Justin Moore Google
★★★★★

“I would highly recommend Riley Perry and Long Island Divorce Mediation if you are looking for an efficient, amicable divorce process.”

Brittany B. Google
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About Our Patchogue Service

About Our Patchogue Divorce Mediation Service

Suffolk County Divorce Mediation, serving families in Patchogue and beyond, provides comprehensive mediation services aimed at facilitating a smoother divorce process. Founded in 2017, Suffolk Divorce Mediation is dedicated to helping couples navigate the complexities of divorce in a way that minimizes conflict and promotes cooperation. With six convenient office locations and evening appointment availability, Suffolk Divorce Mediation is committed to accommodating the busy lives of divorcing couples.

The team at Suffolk Divorce Mediation understands that each family is unique, and their mediators work to develop customized solutions that reflect the needs and goals of both parties. Offering reasonable fees and a free initial consultation, Suffolk Divorce Mediation makes it easier for Patchogue residents to explore their options without financial pressure. By choosing a local, experienced mediation service like Suffolk County Divorce Mediation, couples can take advantage of a supportive and efficient process.

Is Mediation Right For You?

Divorce is never easy, but the way you approach it can make a significant difference in the process. Patchogue divorce mediation offers a more peaceful, affordable, and efficient way for couples to resolve their disputes and come to mutually agreeable solutions. If you’re looking for a method that keeps control in your hands while also preserving dignity and respect, mediation could be the right option for you.

Rather than entering a courtroom and facing lengthy litigation, mediation allows you and your spouse to work together in a neutral, confidential setting. You can openly discuss your concerns and negotiate key issues such as child custody, asset division, and spousal support with the guidance of a trained mediator. This alternative to traditional divorce proceedings ensures that both parties can have a say in the final outcome, creating resolutions that benefit everyone involved.

Patchogue divorce mediation offers an effective, affordable, and respectful approach to divorce, helping families navigate this difficult time with greater ease and less conflict. Whether you’re seeking a faster resolution, a more cost-effective option, or a less stressful process, mediation could be the solution you need.

Benefits That Divorce Mediation Offers

Divorce mediation offers numerous benefits for couples in Patchogue:

  • Control Over the Process: Unlike a judge who makes final decisions in court, mediation allows both parties to have a say in the outcome. This makes the final settlement more likely to be satisfactory for everyone involved.
  • Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are private and confidential, meaning the details of your divorce won’t be made public, unlike in a courtroom setting.
  • Preserving Relationships: Since mediation focuses on communication and compromise, it can help preserve amicable relationships between spouses. This is especially important for co-parenting after the divorce.
  • Customizable Solutions: The mediation process is flexible, allowing for creative and personalized solutions to issues like property division and child custody that fit your family’s needs.
  • Less Adversarial: Mediation is designed to reduce hostility, making it a more peaceful alternative to traditional divorce litigation.
Serving All of Long Island

Six Convenient Locations

From the South Shore to the East End — with affiliated offices in Nassau County — there’s a mediation office near you.

Babylon

57 W Main St, Suite 220
Babylon, NY 11702

Hauppauge

1300 E Veterans Memorial Hwy, Ste 320C
Hauppauge, NY 11788

Huntington

100 E Carver St, Suite 3
Huntington, NY 11743

Patchogue

76 Medford Ave
Patchogue, NY 11772

East Hampton

9 Willow Ln
East Hampton, NY 11937

Mineola · Nassau

1539 Franklin Ave
Mineola, NY 11501

Proudly serving couples throughout Long Island — including Smithtown, Garden City, Islip, Brookhaven, Bay Shore, Commack, Ronkonkoma, Mineola, Riverhead, and the surrounding Long Island communities.

Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions About Divorce Mediation

A mediator is a neutral third party who facilitates discussion between the divorcing spouses. The mediator does not make decisions but helps the couple communicate effectively and work towards a mutually agreeable resolution.

The length of mediation depends on the complexity of the issues involved and the willingness of both parties to compromise. On average, mediation can be completed in a few sessions, but some cases may take longer.

While mediation is a less formal process, it’s often a good idea for each spouse to consult with an attorney to review any agreements before they are finalized. However, mediation can significantly reduce the amount of time and legal fees involved compared to traditional litigation.

Yes, mediation is designed to help couples who may not agree on everything. The mediator will guide the conversation and help find common ground, even if there are disagreements.

Once both parties agree on a settlement, the agreement can be submitted to the court to be incorporated into the final divorce decree, making it legally binding.

Contact Us Today

Request Your Free Initial Consultation

Fill out the form, or call us now. Both spouses attend the consultation together — it’s free, and there’s no obligation to continue.

(631) 761-6634
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